Kim6135
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 posted on 11-10-2008 at 07:15 PM |
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Separated/Soon Divorced
My husband of 18 years has moved out. We have been going through bad times for 4 years, he fell out of love with me and in love with someone else.
He wants to work out things in therapy but it has never worked before. He doesn't love me, but I feel like I need to stick it out because of my moral
values and most importantly what the bible says about divorce. I need some advice and prayer will someone talk to
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| posted on 11-10-2008 at 10:16 PM |
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I am so sorry. This is such a heartbreak. I understand. Feel free to U2U me. Meanwhile, I am beginning to pray for you. 
Welcome to Christian Support.
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| posted on 11-10-2008 at 11:39 PM |
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Kim, if I were in your place I would take hubby up on that offer. In the meantime
I would talk my feelings out to God, holding nothing back, and even asking Him to
help you be honest with your self. Once you have given all your positives and negatives
to God in this manner, [first confessing any known sins] you have a clean slate before Him,
and you are in fellowship with Him.
Now He can work in you. Later as you go through working things out with hubby in the presence
of a counselor, if you are faithful to God, you may be surprised how He works things out for you.
I am of the personal opinion, as one who has bee there before you, that it takes two to make
a mess and it takes two to get that mess resolved.
I have no guarantees how this will work out, but when it is over, with a clear conscious, you can
stand before God and say I did all that I humanly could do to save this marriage and know that it
is true!
You may PM me too, if you like.
A big welcome to CS!
The coming of the lawless one is according to the working of Satan, with all power, signs, and lying wonders.... because they did not receive the love
of the truth, that they might be saved." 2 Thessalonians 2:9-10
Christ said; "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me." John 14:6
Christ did not die to make bad men good; He died to make dead men live.
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| posted on 1-1-2009 at 07:28 AM |
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I hope everything worked out.
He who exalts human understanding, makes himself laughing stock for The Sons of God.
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| posted on 1-2-2009 at 03:25 AM |
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Remember with God all things are possible. Just have a little faith and you can move a mountain.
No matter what stay strong in God and He will help you fix this.
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| posted on 5-14-2010 at 09:06 PM |
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It's such a great opportunity for both of you. Just remember to prayerfully be in God's Word making sure any form of help you use is solely upon the
Bible....Also typically men like to talk about or even start counceling just to try to talk us into being no longer separated. So be wise for both
your sakes, cause the fruits need to continue to prove the work God is doing in you both. Pray to God to be able to focus/concern yourself with the
things you need help with and trust God to work in your Husband. It's surrendering to God in everything-especially in beneficial self revelation that
will give you the victory no matter what happens! 
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Donna1967
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| posted on 6-13-2010 at 04:32 PM |
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Be very careful Kim6135. My husband and I have had problems for over 4 years also following a one night stand he had when out of town with work. We
have been to 3 marriage counselors and each time they tell me that they need to work with him allow. He always says he wants to fix our marriage but
it is just words. He had another affair 6 months ago and I now suspect many more during our marriage. He has been more than content to live here with
his family while giving us no love, living in his own world with his tv, phone and laptop. He is a great provider and thinks that should be enough. I
finally told him he has to leave. I thought that if I prayed enough and loved him enough he would change, but he didn't. He just wanted his cake and
eat it too. Yes, I believe that God can change people but I think God has been telling me for a long time that I need to get out of this.
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